I have never really talked about any arguements or spats Chris and I have had, but this one is weighing on my mind a lot..Last Saturday morning the girls were up and wanted breakfast. Hannah wanted cereal, which is fine, but Alanna wanted a pudding. I didn't see anything wrong with her having it..she doesn't have it everyday and why not its filled with calcium. However Chris did not see it that way. He said the pudding was not breakfast food and did not want her to have it. We began to argue because he said I wasn't listening to him and I said that I was but he wasn't hearing me. In the end she ended up with the pudding because Chris stormed off and went back to bed. He was very mad at me for giving her the pudding and had that blah attitude for the rest of the day.
I never had to co parent with Hannah and what I said would just go, Chris and I have had some upsets with raising Alanna over minor things, but nothing has constitued to a fight like this did. My question is to all the parents or even non parents. How have or would you handle a situation? You say yes, your other says no, you say black and they say white. Got any advice or stories you would like to share? Please do it would help a lot.